The secret to being happy

Do you want to know the secret to being happy?

Here it is

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Always want what life wants for you

That’s it

Simple, but not always easy :-)

Whenever you don't want something, you create resistance. 

Resistance blocks the flow of energy, your frequency slows down and you feel worse.

You become exhausted, you feel like a victim, you get angry or sad.

A sure-fire way to a bad mood is to decide how your life (and your family, your spouse, your pets, the weather, the world economy, your bank account, you name it) is supposed to behave.

Somehow they never listen :-).

Life happens, and to declare afterwards that actually you don't want it to happen this way is quite pointless. 

It doesn’t matter if it is a big thing or a small thing that upsets you, what matters is that you have a pre-conceived idea about how life should be and if life doesn’t match up, you resist.

And this is where you (and me) get into trouble.

Whatever you resist owns you. You hand your power over to another person, to a circumstance, to an happening, to your own thinking...

How you feel becomes dependent on something that isn't you.

And then you start to feel powerless,  you feel like a victim. 

And when you believe these feelings you really are powerless.

Except you are not :-).

All it takes is to let go.

Stop resisting.

Accept life exactly as it is.

Trust that it will bring you only what is best for you.

And love yourself 

LOVE YOURSELF, you are so worth it :-)

I wish you a happy day of staying in the flow

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